In Memory of Our Supporters

We acknowledge our generous supporters and pro-life warriors who have died. We would love to include past supporters. Please send photos to Include the persons name and when they died and a copy of their obituary or what you want us to include.

Mike Proctor

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Michael “Mike” Proctor, 72, of Urbandale died on November 9, 2022.

Mike was born to Morey and Mary (Gagen) Proctor on August 13, 1950 in Des Moines, IA. He graduated from Dowling Catholic High School in 1968. Mike had a 50 year career at Proctor Mechanical, retiring as owner/CEO. He served on the Board of Directors with ABC of Iowa for many years, serving as the chairmen for one of those years.

Mike was united in marriage to Sally Hook on November 22, 1970. He took great pride in all of his kids and grandkids. He loved watching his grandkids participate in all their activities. He was actively involved in his own kids’ activities being a soccer coach for many years.

Mike leaves behind a legacy of laughter, love, and sarcasm. He will be profoundly missed.

In lieu of flowers please consider contributing to InnerVisions Healthcare or Pulse Life Advocates .

Leo Schneider

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Leo Richard Schneider, age 95, of Ames, died Monday, January 18, 2021 at Northcrest Community.

Leo’s life centered around faith and family. He was a member of St. Cecilia Catholic Church and Knights of Columbus. He delighted in gifting the fruits of his labors, whether furniture he built or refinished or fresh flowers and vegetables from his pristine yard and garden. In their retirement, Leo and Betty traveled together from coast to coast, preferably by train, to visit family, attend Elderhostels, or hike in Glacier Park.

Leo loved to regale anyone who would listen with tales of his rough-and-tumble youth in Rock Island, earlier years of Cyclone basketball, rural life in the Pacific Northwest, and countless other adventures — often with Betty admonishing, “Oh, Leo, they’ve heard that one!”

Leo is survived by his wife of 71 years, Betty.

Pray for us, Leo!

Lyle Carpenter

Lyle Carpenter

Lyle converted to Catholicism through earnest independent discernment, and became a life-long advocate.

He and Jeanne sent ten kids to Dowling over a span of 22 years. He always encouraged his children to pursue life and faith, and to accept their life’s ups and downs as part of life and God’s plan. His optimism and graciousness drew people to him.

A grandchild wrote: “He was a great man. An ambassador of the catholic faith. A loyal family man, successful business man, a leader, and a rock. A true example of hard work, dedication, love, and strength. He had a great sense of humor. Especially his banter with Gma. I can hear his laugh now. Goodbye Gpa, you loved us dearly and thank you for all that you did for Gma and mom & dad and for us grandkids”.

Lyle and his wife Jeanne have been champions for the cause of life and generous supporters of Iowans For Life over the years.

Pray for us, Lyle Carpenter!


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Ann Spooner

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Born on March 31, 1924 in Detroit, Mich., she married David Spooner on Jan. 5, 1944. They settled in Cincinnati, Ohio, where they raised eight children prior to moving to Des Moines in 1982 to be near family.

The things that most defined Ann were her love of her Catholic faith, her love of family, (especially the children) and her unapologetic defense of the unborn.

Ann took up watercolor painting late in her life and created many beautiful works of art. Despite a prolonged struggle, visitors could always count on her wisdom, wit and tender heart.

When Roe v Wade passed in 1973, Ann said that this was the beginning of a deep moral decline in our country. She was heartsick.

Pray for us Ann!

Ann's daughter Karen and her husband Tom have picked up the torch for the cause of life and are supporters of Iowans for Life. Tom serves as board president of IFL.

Therese Solawetz

Therese Marie Solawetz

Therese was born July 21, 1928 in Chicago, IL, the daughter of Edward and Anna (Brzinski) Bruzan. She earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Chemistry and later a teaching certificate from DePaul University. She taught in Wood Dale, IL for a few years before her marriage to William Solawetz on February 20, 1954 in Cicero, IL. After raising her seven children, Therese worked as a librarian and substitute teacher in Roselle, IL. She and Bill moved to Monroe in 1994. Therese was a member of St. Clare of Assisi Parish where she served as a substitute teacher and volunteered teaching religious education and helping with the After School Reading Program. She also volunteered her time at St. Vincent de Paul and Monroe Clinic.

Iowans for Life has received donations in memory of Therese.

Therese's son and his wife Wendy are generous supporters of Iowans for Life.

Pray for us Therese!


Richard Heger


Richard “Dick” Edward Heger, 88, will be remembered for his friendliness, generosity, and faithfulness to his family and God. He died peacefully with family by his side on January 28, 2021 at the VA Medical Center in Des Moines, Iowa.

A devout Catholic, Dick attended daily Mass. He was an active member of Saint Mary of Nazareth Catholic Church for over 50 years, where he participated in the Knights of Columbus, Men’s Club, weekly Bible Study, Pro-Life Committee, and more. He was also very active in the St. Serra Club and was a member of the Dominican Associates.

Dick was comfortable talking to anyone and loved to tell jokes. His favorite pastimes were fishing and playing games and cards with friends and family, along with boating, skiing, golfing, bowling, and tennis. He cherished the annual family vacation at the lake. Dick was a great cook; pies were his speciality. He loved to read, find a bargain, and could fix anything.

Pray for us, Dick!

Mary McManus

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Mary Eileen McManus of Urbandale, IA, entered eternal life at the age of 90 on Nov. 15, 2021.  Mary was graceful and gifted, serving others with compassion her entire life.

Born the second in a family of eight, she became a mother of six. She was cherished for her intellect, humor, and guiding her children and grandchildren into pursuits using their God-given talents.

She received her nursing degree and practiced once her children were in school. Mary later became a counselor, serving as an in-patient counselor at the Harold Hughes Treatment Center and then at Mercy Alcohol & Drug Recovery Program.

She opened her own family therapy practice in Urbandale and received certifications in death and dying, addictions, dream interpretation, and spiritual direction.

Mary and her husband were lay Carmelites and longtime Serra Club members.

Mary was passionately pro-life and a generous supporter of Pulse Life Advocates.

Pray for us Mary!